As you formulate your question or intention, avoid questions with “yes” or “no” answers. Instead, ask for information surrounding a given subject. Here are some suggestions to get you started:
- What would be in my best interest?
- What should I be aware of?
- What am I not seeing?
- What is holding me back?
- How do I really feel about this or that circumstance?
- How does this person make me feel?
Start there and see what happens! Ultimately, this is about you, what you want and how you actually feel, and how you can move forward in positive ways for yourself.